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Monday, July 9, 2012 ♔ 11:40 PM

Happy Endings?

i realise now that the popular videos, songs, drama serials, skits, music video, stories etc. all have one thing in common. they are relatable. from the most heartfelt to the most hated. PAIN is smth everyone is able to relate to. the pain of losing someone. the pain of listening to the constant nagging from mom everyday. the pain of answering stupid questions. (jinnyboytv ABUDEN vid) the pain of calling someone back but ur unable to get through cos the person is calling u back at the same time. or even the pain of not knowing whether to walk right or left so that the person in front of you can pas by but then he or she moves to the same side as you. pain is an emotion that is in everyone's lives with no exceptions. thats kinda why its so relatable.

then i realised, personally.. there's a cycle going on in my life. the relationship --> the pain --> watching and wishing it was like in the videos --> the pain of a what if --> even more videos which goes back to contributing to the pain again, then it just goes round and round and round again.
stupid u might think to keep watching those vids if they cause u pain. but if they sort of provide a happy ending that might not be real but makes u believe it might actually happen wouldnt u continue watching it to further comfort urself? it sorta gives people a positive light to things that annoy them or hurt them. sounds contradicting what with the pain but yet the comfort but i guess its true. if the videos never provide a side of the pain we dont see we wont watch them would we? if they dont provide a different ending why would we watch it once, BUT continue to watch it again and again or till the finale?

my concern is, what should we believe in that might happen in real life for us to make the right decisions without these melodramatic or exaggerated scenes affecting our decisions? i mean comeon. how many of you girls or guys out there would think, maybe it might end like in Away We Happened (WongFu Productions)? maybe it might end like Unfold (JinnyBoyTv)? or like some romance book with a happy ending? then we make irrational decisions that we regret or feel stupid about later? sureeeee it might happen, the happy endings i mean. but what? it is like a one in a million chance of it happening to you. i mean u might get lucky but i dont think ppl are THAAAT melodramatic in real life nor do i think that a real life situation would play out so "nicely" (melodramatically).
putting that aside. ppl learn from these stories and videos and try to make the happy endings come true. or even try to avoid stuff like asking stupid questions to save ppl the pain of answering stupid questions. (ABUDEN JinnyBoyTv)

i think i can never find the right answers to my question cos i guess its different for everyone as to how they wana perceive or react to "happy endings" but i guess its worth a shot? otherwise they could just happen in your fantasies and dreams and if you are happy like that why not? ;)

-Cheryl <3

P.s most of the time i dont know what my main point is. i just wonder about stuff and i type it down. so if you think im rubbish jut ignore me :) thanks!!!

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